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How hard can it be to get to Mexico anyway?

While on the subject of New Year – we were invited to see the new year in at Rocky Point in Mexico with friends. We happily accepted and vaguely planned to ride the bikes down from San Francisco. Actually I was really looking forward to the opportunity of riding through southern California – what I’d seen of it so far, the coastline down to Big Sur, was stunning. In any case we figured it would take about two days to ride down. It’s a case of heading to the border and turning right. No?

Then we actually got a map out. California is really rather deceptively long as it turns out. Door to door it was looking like approximately 900 miles. We’ve certainly ridden further in two days but on closer examination, the route along the small roads was going to take far too long. So now we were looking at a two day blast down the Interstate. Not fun.

Then we thought about it some more. While the border south of Phoenix isn’t the worst part of Mexico, you still don’t want to be crossing it at night. And you REALLY don’t want to be crossing at night on a bike. So we would have to spend the night on the US side then ride the last 250 miles or so in the morning. So now it would be a 2.5 day trip which would mean we’d have no time to actually BE there before turning round.

Somewhat disappointed we admitted that taking the bikes was not the way to go. We did have a hire car – so we could just drive that down to Mexico, potentially even in one go if we took turns – right? Wrong. Most car hire companies won’t allow you to take your car to Mexico (or take a driving test in it but that’s a different story).

Hmmm. Then we reasoned that a car rental joint nearer the border just HAD to allow you to cross it. We thought maybe we could bike/ drive to San Diego and take a car from there. That was a pretty good plan. The only thing is that rental companies in San Diego that allow you to take their vehicles into Mexico don’t see the need to rent cars. We could have hired a truck or a bus. Why would you not want to transport lots of people and/ or gear in and out of Mexico? Sigh.

This was harder than we thought. We nearly gave up but did eventually make it to Mexico – by flying in and out of Phoenix and renting a car there (mucho extra paperwork required including a promise to bring it back in one piece). Sheesh!

Once we made it to Rocky Point we had a great couple of days. We walked along the beach watching the pelicans fishing, tasted many different establishments’ finest margaritas but my favourite bit of all was visiting the port to watch the fishing boats come in.

 

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Resolution time

I’m sorry. I’ve neglected posting for a while. I’ve been busy just enjoying the whirlwind that was the end of 2011. It was an amazing year. It wasn’t without its challenges or low points, but I can honestly look back and say that I was given some great opportunities and I made the most of them. It started with a trip to Patagonia, saw me marry and move to China, and included other amazing visits to Indonesia and Nepal (more on that later). The sheer awesomeness of 2011 means that I’ve approached 2012 with a little trepidation. Now that I get a second chance at a new year now it is the year of the Dragon, I thought it was time to make some resolutions:

  • Don’t forget to blog! Sorry to those of you who have been asking. I’ll try to catch up asap.
  • Participate in the Pennsylvania Spartan Run and DON’T SUCK AT IT. I’ve always avoided any running based races. Mostly because I don’t like running. Also I am sufficiently competitive to not want to subject myself to the indignity of being overtaken by someone dressed like a deep sea diver, or Thora Hird or someone. I’m hoping the obstacles will break up my usual running mantra of “hate hate hate hate hate…”
  • Learn Mandarin. OK I’ve taken some lessons but Mandarin is difficult as you have to just sit down and memorise stuff. You can’t take in much from what’s around you as you can’t read any of it. While I am in China I have to reach the point where I can communicate somewhat more than currently.
  • Also China related – I want to be able to acquire skills/learnings about the local market that will enhance my ability to do my job when I return.
  • I want to grow my tiny new consulting business in the meantime. I’ve had some great new business discussions recently. Fingers crossed some of them lead to money šŸ˜‰
  • It’s not very measurable as an objective but I would like to learn how to worry less about things I cannot change. I spend a lot of time doing that.
  • More easily measured is my resolution to sort my teeth out. I’ve never had many problems with them, but there are a couple of things that need to be sorted:- I need to get my top wisdom teeth removed now that the little buggers are deciding to put in an appearance. I also need to get a 20 year old crown replaced as there’s a small infection underneath it. Neither of these things happened overnight, but 2012 is the year they get addressed. Then, thanks to my time living in the US it is no longer acceptable for me to have English teeth. My wisdom teeth are making my previously fairly straight teeth decidedly wonky so I’ll get them fixed too.
  • I also resolve to drink more water. So far this is going badly. Everyday I drink close to a recommended amount of water I have to go to the loo a LOT. Then when I forget, I don’t drink and I have to start trying to retrain my bladder again. Of all my resolutions, this is so far the most difficult one to keep.
  • This year I will get a Chinese driving licence. I am stopped rather frequently in the US so I think having a Chinese licence could be awesome: “Ni hao officer! What seems to be the problem?”.

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A day in the life of a Shanghai park.

Over the last ten or so years, Shanghai has planted a lot of trees. This has been in part in response to the United nations environmental recommendations and partly in preparation for the Expo in 2010. The result is that the city is actually surprisingly green, full of parks and flowers.
The great thing about this is that people really use the parks – they seem to be busy all day long.
Starting early in the morning, the parks are full of people doing tai-chi, walking backwards and other mad Chinese exercises. Something that also happens early in the morning (but which I haven’t actually been up early enough to see is bird walking. Apparently this is the time of day when old Chinese guys take their cages birds for a walk. They all hang the cages on the trees. They don’t just hang the cages any old where there, oh no. They really take care with the placement. They make sure that their birds don’t hang next to a much more extrovert bird, because that would make their bird feel bad…
During the day, the musicians come out. Groups of old guys usually with their instruments, from drums to those ones that are played with bows come out under the trees. If you are really unlucky, there’s also some Chinese singing. We were particularly unlucky yesterday on a trip to Fuxing park, as there was a lady with a microphone who was belting out a never ending series of songs that sounded like a cat-strangling medley.
The grassy bits are usually full of people too – many just enjoying being outside. You can see people playing ball sports, frisbees, flying kites, diabolo, knitting…
The best activity of all starts later in the evening. It’s what I can only describe as Chinese line dancing. Not actually wearing cowboy boots to country music (thank goodness for that) but there are large groups of women doing an identical dance in lines.
I’ll add some videos when I get a chance, some of this stuff has to be seen to be believed.

 

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Chinese horse drama

I just learned that Mandarin for circus is ma xi – horse drama. I quite like that. That goes back to the horse based shows of the early days of circus. There weren’t any horses at the show we went to see this week in Shanghai, but there were some excellent, very Chinese acts.

One of my favourite moments was when, one by one, FOUR girls appeared hands first out of a ceramic pot (that didn’t look big enough to hold any actual people), then proceeded to walk off stage upside down as it it was the most natural thing in the world. Which I suppose it was for them.

My other favourite act was one that featured motorcycles in a wall of death metal cage. Nothing new there you say- but I don’t mean one motorbike, I mean EIGHT motorbikes in a tiny cage. That registers as Chinese levels of insanity.

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First taste of Chinese medicine

ThisĀ  morning I went, with considerable trepidation, to have my immigration medical. While far from pleasant in any way it proved to be an eyeopening experience – in all the chaos and craziness, this unfortunate hurdle on the path to residence here turns out to be an sbsolute model of efficiency.

We showed up at 9am for our appointment. The place was packed and my heart sank when I saw that it employs a bacon counter ticket system. Thinking of past bad experiences at passport offices and other places that use numbers I was kicking myself for not bringing some emergency rations, particularly as weā€™d been instructed not to eat beforehand. I didnā€™t think weā€™d get out before lunchtime.

The first task was a document to complete where you have to mark all the horrible illnesses and surgeries you had ever had. Much to my surprise, among the usual suspects was a box marked ā€œPlagueā€! I wonder how many people can say they have had that.

Almost as soon as I had finished filling out the details my number came up. I did not expect that.Ā  First comes the admin portion. A lady checks your ID against the document. Done within seconds it was then a matter of scooting over to the next chair to the next computer operator who notes any operations. As soon as you vacate a chair, then next pair of buttocks fill the same spot. That’s when I realised it was operated like a human sheep dip.

Before I knew it I was sent to the next room and being ordered to stand on scales, before being handed a dressing gown and those funny plastic overshoes.Ā  This room is at the start of a short corridor with five rooms on each side. Each room is dedicated to a different test. (funnily enough there is actually a room 101Ā  – although just an admin room rather than my worst Orwellian nightmare). From there you are ordered from one to the next where tests are undertaken with military precision.Ā  I had a chest XRay, an ECG, an ultrasound and some blood samples taken. The eye test was hilarious as I didnā€™t quite understand the instructions:

Me: ā€ I donā€™t understand what you need me to sayā€

Doctor pointing randomly at a chart: ā€œCan you see it?ā€

Me: ā€œYesā€.

The Doctor then looks quickly up my nose and down throat (presumably the rigorous NT bit of the ENT exam) then stamps me ready to go to the next room.

Throughout the whole process, Iā€™ve never felt more like a random piece of meat. The one thing that does make you feel a little better about it is the fact that the small corridor is filled with other itinerant souls dressed in the same weird gown and shoes, shuffling from one room to the next. I can imagine that Purgatory would be the same, endless shuffling from room to room for random procedures. That said, it was all over in a remarkable thirty minutes so I canā€™t complain too much. Iā€™ll find out later this week if Iā€™m healthy enough to be a resident. Very pleased that’s now over.

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First Impressions of Shanghai

I’ve made it to Shanghai. It feels like it has been forever since we first decided to take the opportunity to move here. That’s probably because we’ve crammed so much into the last few months. On the other hand the last few weeks have passed in a whirlwind. OK it probably isn’t the smartest idea to emigrate three days after returning from holiday…but we made it.Ā  It’s only been a couple of days but so far so good.

It’s a really impressive city – it’s a really vibrant and cosmopolitan place. I know many places are described as cosmopolitan but few really are. Shanghai definitely is. There’s a strong energy here. While Europe and the US are feeling a bit flat right now, China feels like it is going places – it really does feel like you can achieve anything. Assuming you can embrace the chaos of course because there’s a lot of that.Ā I’m not sure how things are going to work out but I think it’ll be just fine. I’m feeling pretty positive.

I was here for the first time a couple of months ago to find somewhere to live. It struck me as a city of great contrasts. There’s the very rich and the very poor living just a few blocks from one another. It’s just as quick moving from very Chinese areas to those that are very European. The food has been spectacularly good, there’s every possible nationality to choose from and so far I haven’t had a bad meal.

Here’s the video I made when I first visited. I thought it might be interesting to see how my perceptions change over time.

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Big Rock Bike Trip 2011

I just returned from this year’s motorbike adventure. This time nine of us rode in a wide loop that started and ended in Vegas (how many times have I been there this year? It’s just weird), taking us 2000 miles through Colorado, Nevada and Arizona. We started out riding East through Nevada in the scorching heat. It’s a source of huge irritation to the chap that my bike has a temperature gauge. I look at it a lot of the time (party so I can report temperatures just to remind him that I have the ability to šŸ˜‰ Anyway, riding out of Vegas it was well over 100 degrees F, which is not the sort of temperature you want to be sitting on an engine…

Anyhoo – here’s an overview of the pics I took (they are just the pictures from my phone for now – I haven’t had time to process the others yet).

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We saw some astonishing natural sights – it’s a constant source of amazement to me quite how spectacular the US scenery can be. The National Parks are all ruggedly beautiful. The first place of note we visited was Zion National Park. It was the first set of this week’s huge red rocks. Bryce Canyon was the next rock stop –Ā  I’ve never seen anything quite like it. Its weird eroded rock formations make it look like something from a different planet. We stopped there for both sunset and sunrise so experienced impressive light shows over the red rocks. Staying nearby I was struck by the hummingbirds. I watched them feeding for some time.

Next we rode through northern Arizonaā€™s Indian country, reaching Monument Valley in the afternoon. On my one previous visit I saw some of the stunning landscape from the car park and was very impressed at the time. This time we were lucky enough to be able to tour the site. We spent a couple of hours bouncing around the pot holed tracks and were rewarded with more astonishing views. I think we had exhausted our supply of superlatives in about 15 minutes.

After Monument Valley we headed out into Colorado, where we found the worst weather of the trip – torrential rain followed by some vicious hail. Looking at the clouds I thought we’d miss the worst of it so didn’t put my weatherproofs on – I paid for my stupidity with soggy trousers for the rest of the day. Not fun.Ā  Leaving Colorado,Ā  we found the sunshine again as we headed for Santa Fe via Taos. I’d love to be able to spend some more time in Santa Fe. We were only there for dinner but were able to enjoy a large free music concert in the main square.

After Santa Fe, our route took us into Arizona, with a stop at the Grand Canyon, which never disappoints. It was my father’s birthday so we sent him on a surprise helicopter trip to see the sheer enormity of this natural wonder. The day finished in beautiful Sedona, where we had the most delicious birthday dinner under the stars and next to a picturesque creek. It was a perfect night before the return to Vegas the following day.

I thoroughly enjoyed the week. It was both a great farewell to America and a reminder of quite what I’ll be missing.

 

 

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Pin up Shoot

I did something on a random whim recently – I signed up for a pin up photo shoot.

I wasn’t really planning to – I was introduced to a wonderful husband and wife photography Ā team by a mutual friend – I emailed them and they were so lovely that one thing led to another and before long I found myself heading over to Alexandria after work on the way to see them.

At that point I was seriously apprehensive. I wasn’t that sure what to expect and given that I dislike the vast majority of pictures of me, I wasn’t that positive about the likely results. On arrival they put me immediately at ease. Before long I was trying on a selection of weird and wonderful outfits and twirling around for feedback on which to choose. and Costumes chosen, I had my hair and make up done in the style of the 50s pin ups. Then the pictures started. I was pretty self conscious initially, but they gave me props and made me laugh so much that I was happy to take direction. It’s amazing how a giant leaf or parasol stop you from wondering what to do with your hands. It ended up being a surprisingly fun evening.

A couple of weeks later, the pictures came back. I was really impressed Ā – I reckon I wouldn’t look out of place on the side of a B52. Here’s a sample:

 

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The Wedding

A major part of the whirlwind of the last few months was the wedding. I didnā€™t think Iā€™d ever get married and I suspect that many people I know didn’t expect it either. Some of it has been just that I was never that girl who planned it out from an early age. So with no one else to answer to, we arranged a wedding that we would want to go to ā€“ one that wasĀ  fun with great food but that was not particularly wedding-y in terms of tradition or ceremony.

I was all for running off and marrying on a beach but I was convinved otherwise. I am so pleased I was. It was a special couple of days that I am thrilled we shared with people we care about and who care about us. The small group of friends and family who came made it a really special day. Nobody knew each other at the beginning of the weekend, but I think people left as firm friends. One of my favourite memories from the day is everyone squeezed into the ridiculous stretch SUV Iā€™d found, laughing, joking with one another and popping champagne corks. Priceless.

Another element I never expected was the location – we married in Vegas. I had been there for many gruelling trade shows. But the more we thought about it, the more it made sense. For a start, the town isn’t exactly a stranger to weddings! It’s easy to get to, has fab hotels, great restaurants and lots to do. I admit I did look into the chapels and even the drive through weddings but couldn’t quite face the tackiness (veils and bouquet for hire by the half hour!). The hotels didn’t seem quite right either so the wedding ceremony itself was held outside the city, in the beautifully rugged Red Rock Canyon. It was simple and moving. We all stood on a boardwalk in the afternoon sunshine as the Reverend presided over a really personal event. She had gone to the trouble of finding out about us by talking to us both individually and together and even showed up wearing leopard print shoes to match my sash! My father gave a reading of a poem he had written for us and made everyone cry, even the officiant! He then pulled a vial of whiskey out of his cane and we each had a swig. I can honestly say that it was the first time I have seen that happen!

I’m still smiling though – it really was perfect.

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Girl meets world

It really has been ages – I’m sorry I’ve been away so long. It’s been a couple of months of complete craziness.

It started off with a short weekend moving the bikes from Dallas to Vegas – this ended up being a bit of an adventure, with gale force winds, snow in Arizona and closed roads. Soon after that trip we were in Shanghai househunting (Yes, we’re moving to China),Ā back in Vegas getting married (yes I know!), then the honeymoon of course. We’ve had a few weeks to recover, during which there’s been a bit more travelling. Now we’re back, the next week will involve packing up clothes and goods that will be heading to Shanghai with us in a few weeks. Ā I told you it’s all a bit crazy right now. Did I mention we’re doing our 2011 bike trip before we go. Insane.

In any case I’m changing the blog tagline to reflect the move – rather than Letters from America, I’m going to call it Girl Meets world. I’m going to start catching up on all that’s been going on.

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